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The Room Filled with Fog: Understanding Dissociative Fog

Writer: Anita Anderson
Anita Anderson
1 day ago
2 min read

Some days your own mind feels wrapped in wool. Words you know well sit just out of reach. A simple decision — what to eat, which errand to run first — becomes a maze with no visible exit. People are speaking to you and you catch perhaps every third word, nodding along, hoping your face isn't giving away how far away you actually are. You call yourself scattered, or lazy, or not trying hard enough, and none of those words are true.


This fog is not failure. It is the mind's own quiet mercy, lowered the same way a home might dim its lights during a storm — not to leave you in the dark, but to protect something delicate inside from a brightness it isn't ready to bear. When there is too much beneath the surface pressing to be felt all at once, the mind softens the whole room rather than let any single thing come through too sharply.


The fog always lifts. It has lifted every single time before, and it will lift again — not because you forced it, but because it was only ever borrowed time, doing exactly the gentle work it was sent to do.


Who among you fears the Lord? Who obeys the voice of His Servant? Who walks in darkness and has no light? Let him trust in the name of the Lord and rely upon his God. — Isaiah 50:10 (NKJV)


You do not have to see clearly to be held steadily. Even fogged over, even slowed, even reaching for words that won't quite come, you are still being kept — and the fog is never the last word.


Rest Here.

 
 

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